Dirty Dozen: 12 Essential Questions on Escorts Answered
Having an escort as a date can be a wholly pleasurable and satisfying experience – worth every cent spent if done right. Like most newbies you probably have questions about the service and what to expect, to sate your curiosity and ensure your experience with an escort is everything you ever thought it would be, we have listed and answered the Dirty Dozen essential questions you should find helpful. Read below.
How Do I Treat an Escort?
It’s not so difficult. Prepare for an escort like you would a special date you are yet to meet. Be proper, she probably doesn’t expect much but would appreciate it nonetheless. Your escort is human like any other so do not skimp on good manners; tell her she looks nice (they always look nice), smile, be friendly and hold the doors open for her. It is also a good idea to have available a variety of refreshments like wine, soft drinks or juices. She will be pleased that you put in a lot of thought into the meeting.
Can I Record Or Take Pictures?
You cannot take pictures of your escort or record your session unless he/she grants you clear permission to do so. If your escort is drop dead gorgeous and even looks more smashing asleep, resist the urge to steal a photo of her UNLESS you already got a go-ahead.
Call it crazy; if someone is going to be intimate with you, why would taking a picture be a big deal? It just doesn’t work that way Hun.
Note: Some escorts may not mind having a photo of them or even a recording but make certain you get their blessings first.
Will The Sex Be Impersonal?
Likely not, the experience is only as personal as you want it. Usually, escorts are trained and can relate with total strangers in no time. However, like every other profession, individuals differ and thus you may find that your escort just wants to get the money and waltz out as soon as possible. Remember, this is the exception, not the rule as most escorts are warm and friendly. If by some luck you “land” an unfriendly escort, find a different one next time, you are not obligated to stick to any in particular. Find one that you can relate to and have common interests and if possible, read up reviews from previous clients on them, this should give you an idea on what to expect.
Do I Need To Impress In Bed?
Not really, even though you may feel obliged to return the favour, escorts are there to please you; they have learned and will teach you advanced sexual techniques. They are open to answering questions about sex that most people will have a hard time discussing.
How Can I Make A Good Pick?
Hire escorts with realistic pictures. If it looks too good to be true, then be careful. The pictures may have been altered professionally and all imperfections eliminated. If your preferred escort looks sizzling hot in her pictures, you get to see what other guys have to say about her actual looks. You don’t want to have an escort come over looking 10-15 years older than she appeared in the pictures.
Why Do I Have To Pay When I Can Get Sex For Free?
Are you really getting sex for free? You probably are not. Think of all the money you spend on dates, gifts and of course having to deal with her family, pets, TV, medications, doctors etc. All because you hope to get laid! Now think again; are you really getting it for free? If getting laid is all you want, then an escort might be all you need.
What Should I Not Say?
Whatever you do, do NOT mention sex! If your escort goes on about how much she charges for blowjobs, be wary of such. A real and experienced escort will probably drop the call if you make mention of the ‘S’ word and money. Quality time is what you are paying for, not sex.
Does It Matter How I Look?
NO! But it would influence the experience. Being clean is a huge turn on for escorts as it is for any other person. Escorts are humans and of course humans with reasonable expectations; like expecting you to smell fresh from a bath – and no, you do not need to soak in cologne. Just be fresh and clean and your escort will appreciate it. You shouldn’t expect to get the same service a clean-looking client would get if you are looking shabby and can’t remember the last time you showered.
- I’m Not Going to Give out My Real Name, Is That Alright?
It’s a discrete business and escorts generally expect that you, like 50% of first-time clients will give fake names (or fake any other trivia information) even though it is usually just a first name. Truth is; escorts will always know if you gave a fake name. (She’s the one who’s going to call out your name in the heat of passion and see you fluster when your fake name is called :).
Also, if you are going to use pseudonym with an escort, respect their intelligence by being original at least. Use something more believable not John or Jim 🙂
Who Should Be Responsible For Supplies Like Condoms And Candles?
While escorts usually go with their own supplies, it is great if you have yours as well. They may fail to come with theirs or you may prefer a particular brand of condoms or lubricants. So it’s best you are armed with your own. Also, have a fresh supply of washcloths and bath towels so you both can clean up afterwards.
Will Meeting Escorts Affect My Regular Dating Life?
Just the opposite, seeing escorts can be beneficial as you’ll get more experienced with women and feel a lot more confident from getting laid. Also, you may not even have to pressure your date for sex too early and when it does happen, you are a better and more experienced lover with exciting bedroom ideas your date would love.
How Do I Pay My Escort?
Escorts decide their preferred payment mode. An escort can be particular about safety and would take the necessary step to ensure they stay out of harm and trouble. Typically though, you should pay the escort once she arrives or at most wait till she is settled.
Now, most escorts usually will not accept credit card payments, they prefer cash because it is the most legitimate means of payment. If you are hiring one, ensure you got that part about payment sorted out. Find out if she/he only accepts cash, credit card payments or both.
Any Limits In The Bedroom?
None at all if your partner agrees! It is therefore best to spell out your expectations before the hire. And while she may agree to explore your fantasies with you, you also want to be careful that you aren’t accidentally hurting her in the process.
In summary, hiring an escort is no doubt a satisfying experience for many. You gain all the experience you want and are also free to explore your fantasies; the same cannot be said for personal relationships. With escort services, a little knowledge often goes a long way. If it is your first time having an escort, it is wise to acquaint yourself with the essentials above before tapping that button on the website or placing the call.